Do you just want to talk about it, or do you want to have a great intimate connection and sex?
Intimacy and connection can’t just be talked about they need to be experienced. Whatever your relationship situation, intimacy or sexual challenges, you are not alone. Frustrations from unspoken physical disconnect can become the elephant in the room. You might withdraw, argue, take up over-shopping, night time eating, sneaking or porning rather than talk about issues.
I can teach you safe, realistic intimacy solutions without just talking.
More purring and less barking!
I am passionate about improving your pleasure, connection and confidence. Successful relationships come from having and using the tools for emotional and erotic intelligence to keep you feeling alive, growing, secure and connected.
Intimacy: The basics
Intimacy is when you feel safe, wanted, seen and understood. Addressing intimacy can feel risky. It can be a challenge to connect in a new way on your own. Reading about intimacy, talking or watching will not make the shift. Like dancing, you need to experience and practice to know what works for you ~ alone and together. Feeling secure and satisfied in your intimate connections affects all parts of your life.
Some ways I can help:
- bring sex and intimacy back into your life
- develop confidence
- learn to communicate so you can be heard and felt
- define or redefine the boundaries of your relationship
- drop resentment, expectations, frustrations, stress
- increase relationship or sexual curiosity
- learn skills, tools and touch techniques
- reconnect after an affair
- overcome sexual trauma
- navigate family changes/babies/aging parents
- get rid of fear of intimacy, vulnerability, body issues
- respectfully navigate fetishes, kinks, sexual interests
- expand your erotic sexual repertoire
- learn how to avoid pain during sex
- navigate physical challenges, disabilities, special needs
- get realistic solutions for sexual discrepancy
- manage erectile challenges, premature ejaculation
- learn to last longer
- manage performance pressure
- overcome anorgasmia, lack of orgasm or ejaculation
- gracefully and respectfully manage divorce or break-up
The work: How we do it together
Together, we will address your individual or shared needs, wants, desires, frustrations, curiosities, unfamiliar edges, and boundaries without risking your relationship.
I will help you feel super, extra secure and solid in your physical, non-verbal, intimate, sensual connection which then allows for more trust, playfulness, passion and capacity for forgiveness!
I will teach you simple repeatable simple tools and techniques that foster physical and emotional trust, secure your bond so that you can drop the stories, frustrations, lists and be more curious to share pleasure ~ together.
The Results: What you can expect
You will have tools that create a connection in a matter of moments. These are simple, physical gestures, dialogues, and language cues that you can incorporate and practice so that you keep looking forward to more intimate encounters.
You have my personalized support even when you are not with me by connecting before and after our time together. I have no judgements I am here to support you in whatever way is best for you.
You will learn techniques that work for your individual situation. We'll explore together how you can dodge triggers and argue less, heal trauma wordlessly, even learn ways to kiss or give each other mind blowing orgasms through courses of delicious full body pleasure.
You will show up ready to work with an open mind, wear comfy clothes, practice and incorporate the tools into your life as your homework, trust in the process. You will show respect, for all parties involved, and kindly let me know if you will be late, need to reschedule or need to cancel.
We got this!
The Process: How I coach you
You are not alone. My clear, clean boundaries keep you feeling safe and comfortable as I lead you through intimacy building exercises that are just right for you.
I am respectful about your situation. And even though it may feel serious, we can approach it in a light and playful way that allows you to feel calm and at ease.
I am passionate about improving your pleasure, connection and confidence. Sexual desire discrepancy is common, just like your nutritional needs your sexual needs are uniquely yours to manage. I can teach you how to develop and expand your pleasure repertoire and erotic sexual desires in a way that is right for you.
I deeply care and can help you heal intimacy and sexual issues or trauma without burdening your relationship and when you don't have a partner.
I am honored to be an integral part of your most sacred space.
I am here to help. The best players have a coach.
What it takes to get started
Schedule a FREE 20 minute consultation.
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