Intimacy is the Foundation of Connection. 

Intimacy is when you feel safe to open up and be seen, understood, and deeply connected. Feeling confident and secure you can show up for yourself, your partner/s and the world feeling full expressed and alive. 

Lack of intimacy might show up as rage, frustration, in arguments, affairs, porn, erectile challenges, pain or lack of pleasure. It may look like it’s sexual issues or relationship dissatisfaction, desire discrepancy or lack of interest. Intimacy is the main reason for relationship breakdown. 


A coach doesn't just talk to you about football. A dance teacher doesn't just tell you how to dance. You can't cook a lifetime of memorable delicious meals if you don't have the right ingredients. A coach shows you the moves that work for you, how to connect and play a good game, and I have the recipes to bake your cake and frost it too.

I’m Amy Color, Intimacy Coach.

Have simple, repeatable techniques that deepen and repair intimacy and connection, without even saying a word. I give individuals and couples reliable tools that foster a deep bond.

I've helped thousands of individuals and couples feel safe from emotional and verbal triggers. Discover and foster safe delicious tools and techniques for a lifetime of exploration, intimacy and great sex ~ in whatever way is right for them.


mm-hmm is the science and sound of intimacy.
— Amy Color

I Can Teach You

Learn how to use your internal, non-verbal language of pleasure and boundaries that help you safely express and explore your desires ~ together.

When you feel deeply connected and secure, everything else can be negotiated, it's easier to get over the little or big things when you feel sexually fulfilled. Maybe you wish there was more intimacy in your relationship or you don't know what you want, let alone how to ask for it. It makes sense that you fear discussing intimacy issues or sexual desires with your partner because it feels like just talking might bring up more issues.

I have created simple, reliable wordless techniques that keep you feeling safe, synchronized and present.

Join me at one of my workshops or schedule a private session in person or via Skype.

Intimacy is a juicy dialogue without words.



Connect and stay connected physically, emotionally and sensually. Amy’s clear, clean boundaries keep you feeling supported and comfortable. Her wordless solutions, cues, exercises solve many triggers. Couples learn to be safe for each other so they can lean in and feel more trust, bond and connection. Expand your pleasure toolbox in a way that is just right for them.

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Men and women experience intimacy differently. When we feel safe to connect we feel more confident and alive. Whether you want support for yourself or to learn and share with a special person, experience and practice tools that harness your sexual energy. Be present and able to express your wants, desires and boundaries with or without a partner in your life.

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