Intimacy is the foundation of your connections. 

Intimacy is when you feel safe to open up and be seen, understood, ok to be you. It's what makes you feel secure and deeply connected. When you have tools and techniques you have confidence and can build emotional and physical trust with your partner no matter your relationship status. Feeling confident and secure you can show up for yourself, your partner/s and the world feeling full expressed and alive. 
Intimacy issues might show up as rage, frustration, arguments, affairs, porn, erectile challenges, pain or lack of pleasure, it may look like it’s sexual issues or relationship dissatisfaction, desire discrepancy or lack of interest, but it’s intimacy that is the main reason for relationship breakdown. The foundation of intimacy is feeling secure in the physical connection.

Talking about sex and intimacy can seem daunting. Because talking alone does not really address intimacy. 

A coach doesn't just talk to you about football. A dance teacher doesn't just tell you to go dance. You can't cook a lifetime of memorable delicious meals if you don't know use spices. A coach show you the moves that work for you, how to connect and play a good game, and I have the recipes to bake your cake and frost it too. 

Intimacy Therapy Coaching offers mostly wordless simple solutions based on keeping you connected. Learn pleasure based, tools and techniques that foster physical and emotional intimacy.


I’m Amy Color, Intimacy Coach.
Simple repeatable techniques deepen and repair intimacy and connection, without just talking about it. 
I give individuals & couples actual reliable tools that foster deep intimacy.

Whether you have a partner or are mostly cooking for one you deserve to feel fully expressed in your intimate encounters. 

I saw a need for a solutions based sex therapy that addresses and supports couples with their physical connection, without just talking about it! I've created tools for safe physical connection and techniques for fully expressed sexual satisfaction. This is based on over two decades of research, learning and experience. 

I've helped thousands of individuals and couples feel safe from emotional and verbal triggers, 
foster safe delicious connection for a lifetime of exploration, intimacy and great sex ~ in whatever way is right for them.

Intimacy is a juicy dialogue without words. 

Having good verbal communication tools, techniques and skills are great, but sex therapy did not offer the physical communication tools, techniques and skills I felt need to be learned in order to feel safe and secure no matter what is happening in the rest of our life.
I learned everything I could about therapy, tantra, sex, anatomy and the nervous system, to discover what keeps people feeling secure, connected and satisfied, for an experience of for a lifetime!  

mm-hmm is the science and sound of intimacy.
— Amy Color

Discover your natural, non-verbal language of pleasure and boundaries so you can safely express and explore your desires ~ together.

When you feel deeply connected and secure, everything else can be negotiated, it's easier to get over the little or big things when you feel sexually fulfilled. Maybe you wish there was more intimacy in your relationship or you don't know what you want, let alone how to ask for it. It makes sense that you fear discussing intimacy issues or sexual desires with your partner because it feels like just talking might bring up more issues.

I have created simple, reliable wordless techniques that keep you feeling safe, synchronized and present.


Connect and stay connected physically, emotionally and sensually. Amy’s clear, clean boundaries keep you feeling supported and comfortable. Her wordless solutions, cues, exercises solve many triggers. Couples learn to be safe for each other so they can lean in and feel more trust, bond and connection. Expand your pleasure toolbox in a way that is just right for them.

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Men and women experience intimacy differently. When we feel safe to connect we feel more confident and alive. Whether you want support for yourself or to learn and share with a special person, experience and practice tools that harness your sexual energy. Be present and able to express your wants, desires and boundaries with or without a partner in your life.

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